'What if?'
Sometimes asking the question is enough to begin seeing
new possibilities
Mel's Story
What began as a year-long student exchange living with a Thai family and attending a local high school, has become a lifelong love affair with a country, its people and a way of life.
Over the past four decades, Thailand has been a constant in my life. It still continues to inspire me every time I return.
Thailand is my happy place, a place of belonging, familiarity, and calm.
Today, I'm excited to share the Thailand that I love through my writing and my hosted travel experiences.
I invite women to discover not only the beauty of Southern Thailand, but perhaps something new about themselves along the way.
Doing Life Differently in Thailand
The book that started it all and proved it’s never too late to ask…
'What if?'
I realised in my early fifties that I needed to do life differently for a while, so I seized the opportunity of a few months with no responsibilities in my happy place, Thailand.
Among the sun-soaked streets of Phuket's Kata Beach, I discovered the joys of solo travel and embracing new experiences.
At its core, my book celebrates courage and curiosity. There were many moments infused with possibility and wonder, and I hope to inspire my readers to step outside their comfort zones, live life to the full, accept the warmth of genuine human connections and create lifelong memories for themselves.
It’s a reminder that travel has the power to awaken the senses and nourish the soul.
What they said...
“‘I’m trying not to read it too fast I don’t want it to end’.”— Sue H
“A cracking good read that will make you hungry, smile and feel warm inside...that’s gold”— Maeve O'Meara OAM
"I feel like I'm in Thailand with you, thank you for sharing your story' - Mary M
'I've only stopped reading to feed my dog' - Pauline
Southern Thailand Adventures
Let me show you the Thailand I know and love,
the Thailand beyond the guide books.
You'll meet the people who inspired my book.
Eat where the locals eat.
Learn to cook authentic Thai food with a local.
Visit famous Phang Nga Bay and kayak in the caves.
Spend time with rescued elephants.
Discover what’s hidden in the the back streets of Phuket and Khao Lak.
And enjoy the quiet moments that make travel unforgettable.
It's not just about seeing Thailand.
It's about experiencing it.
Come with me
What makes my tour different?
Personally hosted by me
I'll be with you every step of the adventure, sharing the Thailand that has shaped my life for nearly 40 years.
Relaxed not rushed
No 6am starts No big buses. No racing from one place to the next. A thoughtful balance of exploring, relaxing and leaving room for those spontaneous moments.
YOUR holiday YOUR way
Not every traveller wants the same holiday. There is freedom to enjoy your holiday your way.
Meet the locals
My Thai friends are ready to welcome you to their country. They’re excited to know you’re coming and are looking forward to meeting you!
Small groups Big connections
With a maximum of just eight women, there's time for genuine conversation, shared laughter and meaningful friendships.
Travel without the mental load
Your biggest decision will be what cocktail you feel like or whether you swim at the beach or the pool!
Upcoming Tours
Detailed Tour Itinerary and Information
Day-by-day | 10 days - 9 nights | Pricing | Accommodation | Inclusions
November 2026
Phuket to Khao Lak
Tour 1 - 4-13 | SOLD OUT
Tour 2 | 13-22 | 2 PLACES REMAINING
Tour 3 | 25- 4 Dec | SOLD OUT
February 2027
Phuket to Khao Lak
Tour 1 | 3-13 | SOLD OUT
Tour 2 | 17-26 | 6 PLACES REMAINING
Questions
Do you have a questions about my Southern Thailand tours? I'd love to hear from you.
It’s often easier to chat so please send me a message and I'll get back to you personally.
A Place to Pause
Whether you're looking for inspiration, meaningful conversation or simply a quiet moment to reflect, you're welcome here.
Settle in and enjoy.
There's something special about women coming together.
The conversations. The laughter. The stories shared over a meal, beside a swimming pool or with a cocktail in hand.
The Gal Gang is about connection. It's about meeting women whose lives may look completely different to your own, yet somehow finding common ground.
I’ll share women's stories, friendships and the quiet encouragement we can give each other to try something new, back ourselves and perhaps ask... 'What if?’
Stories, musings and the occasional trip down memory lane.
This is where I share the things I've been thinking about, the stories I want to tell and the moments that make me stop and reflect.
You'll find tales from Thailand, memories from years gone by, thoughts on doing life differently and the occasional question that starts with... ‘What if?’
No particular order. No grand plan. Just stories, reflections and conversations I hope might make you smile, think or perhaps become a little more curious about your own life.
In Thailand the lotus flower carries significant meaning.
It grows from muddy water, yet rises above it to bloom into something extraordinary.
It's a beautiful reminder that it's never too late to grow, to change direction, or to create a life that feels more like you.
That's exactly what 'Doing Life Differently' is all about.
And so...
What if?
this is the beginning of your next chapter
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