Do Life Differently.
Not because your life is broken.
Not because you need to reinvent yourself.
But because curiosity has a way of opening doors you never knew existed.
Here you'll discover my stories from Thailand, reflections on midlife, my bestselling travel memoir, small-group journeys for women, and a growing community asking one simple question:
What if?
Because sometimes one question is all it takes to change the rest of your life.
Mel's Story
What began as a year-long student exchange living with a Thai family and attending a local high school, has become a lifelong love affair with a country, its people and a way of life.
Over the past four decades, Thailand has been a constant in my life. It still continues to inspire me every time I return.
Thailand is my happy place, a place of belonging, familiarity, and calm.
Today, I'm excited to share the Thailand that I love through my writing and my hosted travel experiences.
I invite women to discover not only the beauty of Southern Thailand, but perhaps something new about themselves along the way.
Doing Life Differently in Thailand
The book that started it all and proved it’s never too late to ask…
What if?
I realised in my early fifties that I needed to do life differently for a while, so I seized the opportunity of a few months with no responsibilities in my happy place, Thailand.
Among the sun-soaked streets of Phuket's Kata Beach, I discovered the joys of solo travel and embracing new experiences.
At its core, my book celebrates courage and curiosity. There were many moments infused with possibility and wonder, and I hope to inspire my readers to step outside their comfort zones, live life to the full, accept the warmth of genuine human connections and create lifelong memories for themselves.
It’s a reminder that travel has the power to awaken the senses and nourish the soul.
What they're saying...
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“A cracking good read that will make you hungry, smile and feel warm inside...that’s gold”— Maeve O'Meara OAM
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"I feel like I'm in Thailand with you, thank you for sharing your story"- Mary M
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“‘I’m trying not to read it too fast I don’t want it to end’.”— Sue H
Come to Thailand
Let me show you the Thailand I know and love - the Thailand beyond the guide books.
Discover what makes my tour different?
Travel without the mental load
Your biggest decision will be what cocktail you feel like or whether you swim at the beach or the pool!
YOUR holiday YOUR way
Not every traveller wants the same holiday. There is freedom to enjoy your holiday your way.
Small groups Big connections
With a maximum of just eight women, there's time for genuine conversation, shared laughter and meaningful friendships.
Personally hosted by me
I'll be with you every step of the adventure, sharing the Thailand that has shaped my life for nearly 40 years.
Meet the locals
My Thai friends are ready to welcome you to their country. They’re excited to know you’re coming and are looking forward to meeting you!
Relaxed not rushed
No 6am starts No big buses. No racing from one place to the next. A thoughtful balance of exploring, relaxing and leaving room for those spontaneous moments.
Up coming tours
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November 2026
Phuket to Khao Lak
Tour 1 - 4-13 | SOLD OUT
Tour 2 | 13-22 | 2 PLACES REMAINING
Tour 3 | 25- 4 Dec | SOLD OUT
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February 2027
Phuket to Khao Lak
Tour 1 | 3-13 | SOLD OUT
Tour 2 | 17-26 | 6 PLACES REMAINING
A Place to Pause
Whether you're looking for inspiration, meaningful conversation or simply a quiet moment to reflect, you're welcome here.
Settle in and enjoy.
Lotus flower
Growing from muddy water, yet rising above it to bloom into something extraordinary.
That's exactly what 'Doing Life Differently' is all about.
In Thailand the lotus flower carries significant meaning.
It's a beautiful reminder that it's never too late to grow, to change direction, or to create a life that feels more like you.
And so... What if?
What if this is the beginning of your next chapter?
What if the life you've been imagining is closer than you think?
Maybe it's an adventure to Thailand. Maybe it's writing your story and self-publishing just for yourself. Maybe it's joining a community of women who believe it's never too late to start something new.
Or maybe it's simply giving yourself permission to ask one small question...
What if?
One question can change everything. Ask it. Then see where it takes you.
Explore the stories. Join the newsletter. Travel with me. Let's discover what's possible—together.